‘I need a car because I have small children’ is a common, and often justified statement for families who don’t live in the center of a dense urban area. But, as transit systems are (hopefully) improving over time, you may be surprised at how many trips you can comfortably make with public transit.
While taking transit with small children can seem daunting at first, it can also be an exciting and educational experience. I too live in an area that requires a car to get to most places. I recently took my 3 year old to visit his grandparents on public transit and he remembers every detail of the trip and reminisces about it many weeks later.
If you are transit-curious and are looking to embrace more enjoyable, educational, sustainable and affordable travel, here are some tips to make your public transit journeys with little ones smoother and better:
- Plan Ahead
- Check transit schedules and plan your route in advance.
- Consider timing to avoid peak rush hours if possible.
- Understand ticketing - whether you need to pay for your kids and how (sometimes transit apps are not intuitive for purchasing tickets for kids without a phone of their own).
- Have a backup plan in case of unexpected delays or cancellations.
- Pack Smart
- Bring a small bag with essentials: snacks, water, diapers, wipes, and a change of clothes.
- Pack a few small, quiet toys or books for entertainment.
- Consider bringing a lightweight, foldable stroller for longer trips.
- Safety First
- Hold your child's hand on platforms and while boarding.
- Teach children to stand behind safety lines on platforms.
- Choose Your Spot Wisely
- Opt for seats near the doors for easier boarding and exiting.
- Windows are also great to keep your kids curious and engaged.
- On buses, the front seats are often reserved for families and those with mobility needs.
- Make it a Learning Experience
- Talk to your child about the different types of transit and how they work.
- Count stops together or play "I Spy" to keep them engaged.
- Discuss proper behavior and etiquette on public transportation.
- Be Prepared for Bathroom Emergencies
- Know where public restrooms are along your route.
- Consider having your child use the bathroom before starting your journey.
- Practice Makes Perfect
- Start with shorter trips to help your child get accustomed to public transit.
- Gradually increase the length and complexity of your journeys.
- Time Buffer
- Allow extra time for your trips, especially when you're just starting out.
- This reduces stress if you need to make unexpected stops or if your child needs a break.
- Involve Your Child
- Let older children help with tasks like holding the transit pass or pressing the stop button.
- This can help them feel more engaged and responsible.
- Stay Calm and Positive
- Your attitude will influence your child's experience.
- If things get stressful, take a deep breath and remember that every trip is a learning opportunity.
- Connect with Other Transit Families
- Join local parenting groups to share tips and experiences about using public transit with kids.
Remember, using public transportation with your children not only reduces your carbon footprint but also helps kids develop important life skills. They learn about navigation, time management, and interacting with their community. Plus, it's a great way to spend quality time together while exploring your city.
Every family and child is different, so don't be afraid to adapt these tips to suit your needs. With a little preparation and a positive attitude, you can turn your public transit journeys into adventures that your children will cherish.
By Avi Lozowick - August 12th, 2024